Choosing an Assisted Living Community doesn't have to be daunting. First and foremost you should look for a community that will serve your desired lifestyle or that of your senior. This is going to be your new home or the home of a beloved family member. Ask yourself these important questions in order to make the best choice. Then you can be rest assured that you and your beloved senior will feel at home in their new place.

Trust your first impression and look beyond the fancy decor and brocade draperies.

1. Are the staff smiling and interacting with the residents or is the place quiet like a morgue, you feel like you have to whisper and everybody is sitting around asleep in wheelchairs, being ignored.

2. Eat a meal there. I'm quite serious! Good food is an essential indicator of quality in other areas. Don't just look at the menu - see the portion size and taste it. Are snacks and fresh fruit available in the dining room throughout the day? Food is a very important and sometimes the last remnant of pleasure in a seniors life.

3. Does the place smell of disinfectant or is the air clean and fresh and there are fresh flowers and live plants. Is there a pretty outside garden?

4. Do they have a piano and an afternoon social hour?

5. What kind of activities do they provide? Is it intellectual with trips to concerts and plays and guest speakers or just balloon volleyball and arts and crafts. Is there concierge service for transportation?

6. Is there a library and an in house beauty/barber shop?

7. Is there an internet cafe and computer classes available?

8. In the actual apartment - check for these items and don't assume they will be there: Grab bars in the tub and shower; Non slip surfaces in tub and shower; Raised toilet seats; Emergency button in bathroom, bedroom and living room .

9. Do the closets have double hung rods and shelves? Most Assisted Living Apartments are small and will not fit a standard sized chest of drawers in the bedroom. Ample storage in the closet is essential and should also be reachable to a senior who may be in a walker or wheelchair. If the closets are not properly fitted, get it done before you move in.

10. If the senior needs a power chair, is there an outlet outside their door where it can be parked to recharge?

Don't assume that these things will be there. As a Senior Move Manager, I've found them lacking even in the fanciest and most high end communities. Knowing what to look for and what to ask for is essential to choosing the right Assisted Living Community. A professional Senior Move Manager through the National Association of Senior Move Managers NASMM can also help you get your new home ready from the start.